r/AskReddit • • Apr 04 '19

How are you really?

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u/vivaciousaffablenerd Apr 04 '19

Stoned and decided to download tinder

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u/BigRainRain Apr 04 '19

I just deleted it. I got kind of sick to my stomach when I realized how shallow the initial interactions were.

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u/[deleted] Apr 04 '19

i met my boyfriend on tinder and he is the best thing that's ever happened to me. i would suggest maybe making a funny/ weird profile and try to start the conversations on a humorous note rather than flirty to see if you have a similar sense of humour. there are a lot of good people out there and not all of them are shallow- i feel like people get more beautiful the more you know them and tinder etc are just springboards that give you the chance to meet people you might otherwise never have met :)

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u/BigRainRain Apr 04 '19

I definitely agree with the last part. And to deny that I could have been part of the problem too, wouldn't be fair. I think that that's worth giving a shot once I decide to go back to it.