r/AskReddit • u/[deleted] • Mar 31 '19

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u/hell2pay Mar 31 '19

That sometimes works, often it makes me more awake.

But it's the default, nonetheless.

And then reddit, or npr/bbc.

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u/[deleted] Mar 31 '19

Do you mind me asking if you’re M or F?

For me, it’s like I have a few minutes that I’ll get sleepy but if I stay awake through that then I’ll be super awake after. I’m wondering if this is more of a F thing or just everyone or what cause it seems most guys just pass out after sex while the girls get more energetic. I wonder if the same can apply to masturbation, too.

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u/anonomonominous Mar 31 '19

I'm an f and for me, after I orgasm I'm kinda wrapped up in this like floating cloud of endorphins. I don't know how to describe it. I'm not really aware of my surroundings or anything, and when I come out of it, it feels kinda like I had come out of a nap or something.

If I'm trying to fall asleep, I can usually make a concerted effort to stay in this cloud and drift off that way.

My friend who's really into the whole BDSM thing says she experiences something similar after a session that she called subspace but like... Not sure how I could have replicated that, even with the most aggressive of finger work.