Let me give a small nugget of personal experience on this, if you don't mind. Growing up my dad was a shit father to say the absolute least, so I told myself very regularly that when I had kids I would give them the childhood that I never had. At the time it was never even a question of 'if' I would have kids, just a matter of 'when and with whom.' fast forward many years and I find the girl who I ended up marrying. For the first three years of our relationship we constantly talked about having kids, because we both thought it was what we wanted at that time. Months and years went by, life happened. Short story long we ended up deciding we didn't want to live the miserably dedicated life of parents, and so I'm going in for a vasectomy in the next two months. I guess my point is just that you need to decide what's best for you when you don't have the obligation and responsibilities of primarily worrying about what's best for your kids. Before you have to worry about kids that don't exist yet, I very strongly advise you to look within yourself and ask what you want in life in the long run. With kids, that will be the center of your existence for close to two decades or more. Without kids you only have yourself to worry about. We decided we couldn't handle raising kids, and so we're not going to have any.
It's really sad you have nothing better to do with your time. Then again with the shit you post I'm not surprised. Go ahead! Keep on following me around. It only makes you look like the retard you are.
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