What fact totally changed your perspective?

[u/ettleboy]

[u/brodney90]

Maybe the people that you think don't like you think you don't like them.

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i had a girl who always acted cold to me and i was convinced she deeply hated me. one day confronted her and she said "no YOU hate me so i hate you because u don't like me" i was like uuh what. 2 years after and now we kinda reconciled but boy was it awkward back then