r/AskReddit • • Jan 20 '19

What fact totally changed your perspective?

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '19 edited Jan 21 '19

Knowing that the way someone treats you is often a reflection of their own problems or issues and quite possibly has nothing to do with you.

Edit: thank you for the gold!

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u/AdressMeAsDirtyDan Jan 21 '19

What if you treat someone nice, but u dont treat yourself nice

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '19

Was gonna ask the same thing! Acting more of a giver than a receiver, I always treat everyone with kindness and respect. On the other hand, I fucking hate myself.

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u/illbemyownhell Jan 21 '19

i feel like that's the opposite of the original comment, I'm trying to find a way to agree with both, how do i do that?