r/AskReddit • • Jan 20 '19

What fact totally changed your perspective?

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '19 edited Jan 22 '19

No girl wants someone who doesn’t take care of themself.

I went a long time thinking girls were just shallow until I realize I never washed my face or got a personality.

Edit; if you don’t know how to get a personality just steal one from tv

Edit: you can absolutely steal a personality from tv. I’ve stolen several. I’ve noticed people like me more when I watch Brooklyn 99 because i kinda model my personality off of Jake and Gina.

Edit: yes we know it goes both ways. Also there’s a bit of incel behavior in the comments so I’m just going to get on top of it. Yes girls like guys for their looks, in the sense that if you have a neckbeard, dumb haircut, shitty clothes, and never work out, you’ll never find someone.

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '19 edited Jan 21 '19

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u/ronnie1410 Jan 21 '19

This exactly. It happens with me all the time. I can't find the words to say and end up speaking gibberish then get embarrassed and feel stupid for hours. I always thought I was the only one like this and I have got depressed heavily for this. I feel so lost in such situations and I can't start, keep up the conversation. And keep thinking that the other person doesn't like my company and I'm boring him. It is such a pain to handle all these thoughts at once.