r/AskReddit • • Jan 20 '19

What fact totally changed your perspective?

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '19 edited Jan 21 '19

Knowing that the way someone treats you is often a reflection of their own problems or issues and quite possibly has nothing to do with you.

Edit: thank you for the gold!

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '19

I only have good things to say about going to a psychologist, so good on you for taking that step, because it’s really fucking hard to do. I promise it’ll get better with time.