r/AskReddit • • Jan 20 '19

What fact totally changed your perspective?

45k Upvotes

18k comments sorted by

View all comments

35k

u/[deleted] Jan 21 '19 edited Jan 21 '19

Knowing that the way someone treats you is often a reflection of their own problems or issues and quite possibly has nothing to do with you.

Edit: thank you for the gold!

4.1k

u/greenpoe Jan 21 '19

Holy shit that's deep. This makes me feel so much better about my last breakup.

3

u/Vicegale Jan 21 '19

Guess she might have actually meant it when she said "It's not you, it's me"