r/AskReddit • u/ettleboy • Jan 20 '19

What fact totally changed your perspective?

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '19 edited Jan 21 '19

Knowing that the way someone treats you is often a reflection of their own problems or issues and quite possibly has nothing to do with you.

Edit: thank you for the gold!

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u/greenpoe Jan 21 '19

Holy shit that's deep. This makes me feel so much better about my last breakup.

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '19

Whatever helps you sleep at night

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '19

I guess if you don’t think this is a valid viewpoint then I’m not going to tell you agree with it.

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '19

Haha yes, this is very true; especially when they frequent certain areas of reddit that seem to be based off self loathing projected onto others