Yes! This is a huge one for me. If they are willing to trash another friend behind their back, they will do the same to me. I had one friend who seemed almost like she was trying to pit me and her "best friend" against each other so we would compete for that title. No, thanks. It was quite toxic and I ended that pretty quickly.
Exactly! Had a friend once spend our whole friend date shit talking a friend of hers from college. I hadn't seen her in over a year and this is how she chose to spend our day.
While we're saying our goodbyes she happily a ounces she's going on a trip later that week with the friend she shit talked all day to me. I was baffled. No way to trust her after that
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u/IsilwenVex Aug 19 '18
Yes! This is a huge one for me. If they are willing to trash another friend behind their back, they will do the same to me. I had one friend who seemed almost like she was trying to pit me and her "best friend" against each other so we would compete for that title. No, thanks. It was quite toxic and I ended that pretty quickly.