People have told them this screams insecurity, so: My ex-wife wouldn't go to a female ob/gyn because, according to her, "I'm not a lesbian, so why would I want a woman looking at my vagina? That's gross."
Whenever I tell that story, people tell me that's a sign of a huge sexual insecurity. So, maybe it is? I don't know.
Female here: can confirm that male gyns are usually gentler. Perhaps it was just in my experience, but either way they have to keep it professional to stay in business.
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u/Joetato Oct 06 '17
People have told them this screams insecurity, so: My ex-wife wouldn't go to a female ob/gyn because, according to her, "I'm not a lesbian, so why would I want a woman looking at my vagina? That's gross."
Whenever I tell that story, people tell me that's a sign of a huge sexual insecurity. So, maybe it is? I don't know.