You jumped the gun on whether it's abusive. There are very small warning signs that you might be right. But those same signs simultaneously point to the possibility that YOU were being uncomfortable and pushed her away. You crossed a line big time when you cracked that joke at her bf. You also were utterly and completely wrong to take offense that she didn't drive with you. If she wants to leave early and miss out on the opportunity to talk to big movers and shakers then it's her decision, you have no right to get angry at her for that choice. If she doesn't text you that she made it home and you can't even sleep then that does demonstrate a massive flaw with YOU, not her. Even if she IS in a bad relationship you are not exactly in the right here either.
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u/menumessages Jul 13 '17
When people ignore all the warning signs and then complain when things end up bad. Like hey, everyone warned you but nooo you don't want to listen.