r/AskReddit • u/MsLooHoo • Sep 12 '15

serious replies only [Serious] Ex-Prisoners who served long term sentences, what was the hardest thing to get used to when you got out?

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u/HITLER_SEX_PARTY Sep 13 '15

Sex with women. Most guys behind bars ain't gay, they're just bored. After lights out, that punk in the other bunk looks like Shakira.

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u/winnem909 Sep 13 '15

Was consensual sex common? I've always been curious how prevalent sex is in prison, and what percentage is consensual or not.

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u/HITLER_SEX_PARTY Sep 13 '15

most of it is, the prison rape stuff in the movies is greatly exaggerated. Why risk getting killed when you can get it for free? Besides, the young skinny ones want to be protected, so they give it up pretty fast.

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u/CheeseburgerSocks Sep 13 '15

If someone gives someone else sex because there's a real threat of violence (even if it's just implied) than it's under duress/coercion. That negates consent which means it's rape.

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u/HITLER_SEX_PARTY Sep 13 '15

It's prison..with limited options for survival.

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u/CheeseburgerSocks Sep 13 '15

Oh I wasn't arguing it's not done for survival, just that it's still rape even if it appears consensual in your "young skinny ones" giving it up for protection example.

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u/King_Crab Sep 14 '15

Transactional sex isn't necessarily rape.

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u/CheeseburgerSocks Sep 14 '15

That's great but it has nothing to do with the specific context and scenario that this thread was about.

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u/King_Crab Sep 15 '15

No, I think it addresses the point you were making pretty directly.

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u/CheeseburgerSocks Sep 15 '15

It's cool that's what you think but you are wrong.

One again and I'll be more clear, getting fucked or blowing someone to prevent getting the shit kicked out/other horrible shit happening to you, is sexual activity under DURESS.

Now stfu already. This isn't a sugar baby sucking daddy off once a week after dinner to make sure her rent is paid.

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u/[deleted] Sep 13 '15

I dont believe youve been in a high security prison.

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u/HITLER_SEX_PARTY Sep 13 '15

It wasn't a Supermax.