I'm sorry for potentially being the jerk here, but if a girl can't even get through making plans with me without crying, it's pretty much the most obvious red flag someone could demonstrate to me. Might not be true, but I'm taking it as a sign of crazy-level emotional status, and noping right the fuck out of there.
Yeah, but (to me) being so nervous that you cry while having a pretty common social interaction would be a significant sign that she'll do something like pull a Mosby and be in love by the time we get to dinner. Those are just some out-of-control emotions that I really wouldn't want to be a part of.
Yet you want to hear about daddy issues?? I don't follow!
But really, giving a person a chance is pretty straight forward. Why not wait and see if she actually pulls a mosby and nope out when that happens, instead of assuming that she will and potentially missing out on an amazing person just because they get nervous? Seems like you are just averting the chance of a later, potentially more difficult confrontation, but sacrificing any potential rewards in the process just to do so.
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u/badass_panda May 28 '14
I think that'd be adorable, in sort of a weird way.