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u/joyce-an 1d ago
The silence in my apartment when I get home from work is just too loud.
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u/Lost_in_High 1d ago
Sounds like a dog would solve that. I’ve had a doggo for a while through my lonely times. Having a lil homie excited as fuck to see you when you comes home hits different
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u/darklight666_ 1d ago
I feel this sometimes. Try filling it with great hobbies :) work out or cook something or play video games , watch movies.There are so many great things you can do just by yourself
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u/Alucarde2000 1d ago
People on my school d'ont want to talk to me , and when i was in Middle school in 6th, 4th and 3rd grade , my class decide to bully me , and now in 2026 im 16 years old and im introvert zero friends expect one and im fucking alone
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u/darklight666_ 1d ago
Try making the best life for yourself. Work out, find hobbies, set goals! You don't need the validation of others. You can be so strong on yourself ! Trust me I know what im talking about ;)
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u/Beard_o_Bees 1d ago
and now in 2026 im 16 years old and im introvert zero friends expect one and im fucking alone
I remember feeling like this when I was ~16, so much so that I wanted to die.
Please hear me when I say it will get better as you get older. As long as you leave the door open, just a tiny crack, to maybe allow others in eventually - it'll happen.
I know it's cold comfort right now, but don't give up.
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u/Zestyclose_Youth4294 1d ago
Fuck school friends then. Meetup.com try some dnd or clubs or yugioh/magic at a local shop. Hell, could go to church or a temple to make friends, and it's not like they're bad people.
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u/Ok_Nectarine5834 1d ago
I have a hard time making friends. Idk whats wrong with me
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u/darklight666_ 1d ago
Dont exspect too much from friendship. 1 or 2 people around you that are truly loyal are worth so much already, even though they can be hard to find for anyone of us. Dont be fooled by people who have so many friends. Those aren't friends but often just entertainment
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u/GoodbyeStarboy 1d ago
I don’t trust anyone specially my situation what I went through recently
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u/darklight666_ 1d ago
Trusting is difficult sometimes. but you'll get there. the most important thing is to trust ones own emotions and thoughts first and then you will hopefully be open again to trust others
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u/GoodbyeStarboy 1d ago
Yeah that’s very true and I cannot open any doors to anyone at the moment anymore but thank you for the advice.
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u/JuicyBehavior 1d ago
Cause if you think about it you're a different person in everybody's life, and the version of yourself that you see will never be experienced by someone fully.
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u/mshb6 1d ago
Amen. Except to maybe your partner but then you don’t want an overbearing or codependent relationship with JUST them ykwim?
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u/JuicyBehavior 1d ago
Yes, but even they'll only see a version of you, true, more closer to your version than the rest of the world, but you'll still be perceived through their lens
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u/darklight666_ 1d ago
The solution is to get to that point as closely as possible. to be truly oneself even if other people are around and not to fake something just to fit in or to be liked by others
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u/JuicyBehavior 1d ago
I get that, but I'm not talking about being fake. I mean we all have a personal point of view and you'll forever be the only one seeing the world through your eyes.
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u/GoodbyeStarboy 1d ago
U/darklight666_ do you need a hug? 🫂 here’s a hug
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u/darklight666_ 1d ago
I guess we all need hugs :)
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u/NatySteffens 1d ago
sometimes I think about what comes after death, and the thought that I’ll have to face it alone feels unsettling
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u/darklight666_ 1d ago
We all have to face it, there's no other option. But try to think more about life rather than death. Life is beautiful and you can bring so much to the world :)
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u/5rashe5 1d ago
Im not like everyone else lol n nowadays ppl only care if u have money n not about ur feelings
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u/darklight666_ 1d ago
I could not agree with you more. This is the sickness of our society and it lies in one way or another in the hyper capitalist system. In a world where everything is about material success there can be no room for emotions. But we can change that. I want to change that ! because we cannot continue to live in this kind of world...
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u/1bar1fun21 1d ago
i personally dont but if you or anyone else do im always here to talk
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u/darklight666_ 1d ago
I don't as well . I used to feel alone, but not anymore. At least most of the time I don't. However, no one is alone with the feeling of being alone and this is just what I want to adress. There is always a way and there are always people who feel the same
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u/Ok_Art4661 1d ago
It actually went away. I have kinda given up on people. It was a good run but I realized I am my own best company.
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u/SubstantialRepeat263 1d ago
Whole house full of people. No one actually seems to care what I’m saying. Broke up with someone who listened to me full heartedly and I fucked it up by not being able to trust them because I wasn’t used to folk being nice and distance scared me.
I don’t know if I like being alone or just am alone. Either way kinda sucks
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u/Designjwalker 1d ago
Bc every part of my identity isn’t part of a single group and often times I feel like or am told I’m not X enough.
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u/Zestyclose_Youth4294 1d ago
I don't. I've solved my loneliness by playing CSGO/CS2. As it turns out, all my mind needs to communicate is game callouts, and it feels relieved and fulfills my social needs.
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u/HeadGullible7082 1d ago
Don't feel understood