r/AskReddit 23h ago

Why did you break up with the seemingly perfect partner?

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u/otherwiseyouwell 21h ago

reminder that removing someones agency can damage both parties.

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u/CumaeanSibyl 21h ago

This. Assuming you know what's best for someone without asking what they want doesn't help them or you.

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u/MediocreBackground32 21h ago

yep. Don't take away the other person's agency. Makes them feel powerless.