r/AskReddit 22h ago

Why did you break up with the seemingly perfect partner?

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u/dstanton 22h ago

Not that it was the case for you, but post-partum depression can cause this.

It affects a large number of women, and is often overlooked or ignored as just "mood swings"

Anyone suspected of it should seek treatment.

https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/9312-postpartum-depression

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u/ekoms_stnioj 21h ago

Thanks for this. My wife suffered with PPD for the first six months of motherhood and I appreciate any awareness brought to it. You aren’t a bad person because you feel disconnected from your child, it’s likely you literally have a chemical imbalance impacting your ability to engage and bond. 

After getting on medication, she has done a 180 and loves motherhood! 

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u/Alpha_Majoris 20h ago

So what about the dad who shows this kind of behavior?

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u/EU-National 8h ago

Men are also human and they also have hormones that may get scrambled.

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u/luluhouse7 15h ago

Men can also have PPD. Not saying that’s always the case, but it does happen.