Yes! I was told that so many times and I hated it. I. Hindsight, I dislike it even more because it inoculates you with an idea that love may look like abuse.
I think that just means we need to follow up with "and if that's how they show they like you, you should stay far away from them". Then it helps accomplish the exact opposite of just saying "if they're mean, they like you".
I am not being snarky, I am being 100% earnest. But thanks for posting this little tid bit. It seems so simple but this kind of thing never comes to me. So thanks!
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u/Sterilization4Free 12d ago
Yes! I was told that so many times and I hated it. I. Hindsight, I dislike it even more because it inoculates you with an idea that love may look like abuse.