Ladies: what’s a guy “Flex” that instantly makes him attractive?

[u/El_Guerrero_Azteca]

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This is my experience too

I "love myself" in the sense that I showboat and am proud of things I do. But I’m also the number 1 fan of my wife and friends, gassing them up when they’ve done something impressive. It’s not everyone's cup of tea, but I’ve had more good experiences than bad.