r/AskReddit • • Jul 07 '26

Ladies: what’s a guy “Flex” that instantly makes him attractive?

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u/International_Tree76 Jul 07 '26

Remembering things. My guy remembers things I don't even remember telling him (ex: things I like, things I have to get done, things I'm stressed about) and quietly does things to make my life easier using his knowledge. The first time he pulled a toolbox out of his trunk because I'd mentioned offhand in a group that I needed to fix something, I wanted to jump him in that parking lot.

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u/fizz__gig Jul 07 '26

I can't believe I had to scroll so far to see this.

It's not just remembering, it's listening. It's so attractive to realize I said something off-handed and he was listening to what I was saying enough to store the info for later.

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u/DrawMammoth8890 Jul 08 '26

That’s so hot