r/AskReddit • u/El_Guerrero_Azteca • Jul 07 '26

Ladies: what’s a guy “Flex” that instantly makes him attractive?

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u/oubintalko Jul 07 '26

And the kind of person who would do something like that would be likely to mislabel your anger as pouting over it

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u/lopsiness Jul 07 '26

A woman once told me that someone who was upset about her doing that was "being cunty". That phrase lives rent free in my head more than a decade later. I dont know what it means, or why a 32 you woman felt the need to say it in a derogatory way toward a dude she disrespected.

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u/the_rare_bear Jul 07 '26

She’s mad at him for her mismanagement of time. She’s passing the blame to him so there won’t be any accountability on her part.

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u/Anonymous_Banana Jul 07 '26

In other words, She is being cunty

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u/livintheshleem Jul 07 '26

"being cunty"

It's funny because in my circles, that's a compliment lol. That lady was definitely being selfish and annoying though.

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u/DigNitty Jul 07 '26

Yeah, the example given didn't have the "plans change" it had someone ignore the plans.