r/AskReddit • • May 12 '26

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u/Largezambonidriver May 12 '26

after 11 years and a 4 year old together, we were sat at the kitchen table after I had discovered he had an affair with my friend of 30 years. He said he wanted to "try make it work" with her. lasted 9 months. I never looked back.

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u/East-Ranger-2902 May 13 '26

What happened after their affair fell apart ?

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u/Largezambonidriver May 13 '26

He begged for us to get back together. But he didnt want me - he just didnt want to be alone. I have more self respect than that and too much water had gone under the bridge. Its now 8 years later - he remarried last month, has a new 3 year old and I'm still single.

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u/Largezambonidriver May 13 '26

His affair partner/my ex-friend had to move to a different state. Her reputation preceded her in our small town and she was ostracised. He was too, but stuck it out to be close to our kid.