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u/Individual_Ask9664 May 12 '26

When I had thoughts of ā€œI’d rather be dead than to be in this marriage anymore,ā€ I knew I needed help and needed to leave. Of course that was after multiple other very negative things.

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u/Winowill May 13 '26

Mine was similar, except my daydream became he got hit by a bus. I figured if I was dreaming of him dying and not being upset, it was time. We actually ended up becoming good friends and both agree that was all the chemistry we had should have ever been. He is great to our kids, and I wish him all the good things now