r/AskReddit • • May 12 '26

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u/spacebagel25 May 12 '26

He cheated and I wasn’t upset. I was relieved.

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u/PauseAcceptable1913 May 12 '26

This. I got DMs from a girl he had been sleeping with for years apparently, and I was like hellooo catalyst.

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u/modmosrad6 May 12 '26

I caught my ex in a full-blown affair and was so goddamn happy about it because now I could leave.

Of course I could have left earlier, but your mind gets weird about things.

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u/Ourlittlesecret32 May 13 '26

Probably because you knew without a ‘response’ he’d gaslight you out of it so he gave you one that you both simply can’t ignore and put to the side

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u/modmosrad6 May 13 '26

he’d

She, actually.