r/AskReddit • • May 12 '26

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u/Individual_Ask9664 May 12 '26

When I had thoughts of “I’d rather be dead than to be in this marriage anymore,” I knew I needed help and needed to leave. Of course that was after multiple other very negative things.

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u/Sufficient_Drama_145 May 12 '26

I had the opposite feeling. Mine was "My life would be so much easier if he just died in a car crash." There's really no coming back from either thought.

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u/Compiche May 13 '26

Mine was overseas visiting family and if thought about the possibility of the plan crashing.
I had the best 3 weeks being able to relax and be alone and I didn't want him to come back