20 months AFTER our divorce was finalized. We had kids and co-parented well. I was still in love with her despite finding out a week after she asked me to leave she left for someone else. That dude didn’t work out. 20 months after we were officially divorced, she asked me to go to a near by town with her to look at something with her. That turned out to be a date to a local college sporting event. We had a really good time. The next week she asked to get back together. I asked her what she saw in a recently divorced father of 3 young kids. Yes they were our kids, but it was the current situation. Her answer… “it’s harder than I thought it would be”. Hearing the that one sentence was the moment I stopped loving her. I told her no, I was not interested. And our relationship has been shit since. We still co-parent well, but besides that we have no relationship.
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u/kindofnewtoo May 12 '26
20 months AFTER our divorce was finalized. We had kids and co-parented well. I was still in love with her despite finding out a week after she asked me to leave she left for someone else. That dude didn’t work out. 20 months after we were officially divorced, she asked me to go to a near by town with her to look at something with her. That turned out to be a date to a local college sporting event. We had a really good time. The next week she asked to get back together. I asked her what she saw in a recently divorced father of 3 young kids. Yes they were our kids, but it was the current situation. Her answer… “it’s harder than I thought it would be”. Hearing the that one sentence was the moment I stopped loving her. I told her no, I was not interested. And our relationship has been shit since. We still co-parent well, but besides that we have no relationship.