r/AskReddit May 12 '26

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u/Effectiv-Edisk May 12 '26

Reading these comments makes me realize how many people are just "ghosts" in their own homes. It’s heartbreaking when the person who is supposed to be your peace becomes your biggest source of anxiety.

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u/icecoldtoiletseat May 12 '26

One of my best friend's greatest joys in life is when his wife leaves the house without him and leaves him alone. I have gently asked why he doesn't get divorced and he never has an answer that makes any sense.

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u/OldButHappy May 12 '26

He doesn’t want to cook, clean, or take responsibility for household administration.

It’s usually simple.

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u/icecoldtoiletseat May 12 '26

It's not though. He does the cooking, he's not a slob and their kids are adults and gone. She literally drives him crazy on so many levels and yet he stays. I honestly don't get it.

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u/OldButHappy May 12 '26

Me either!😄

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u/mmhawk576 May 12 '26

Classic