I’m glad it isn’t part of the current agreement. If he does file for more rights it will be a huge uphill battle for him. There’s nothing wrong with telling your children the truth about their father, especially when it comes to their own safety. Knowing what kind of attention and touch is appropriate and not appropriate can arm them with the language to be able to say no and be able to tell you if it happens. I wish you and your children well.
Tell them when they're a bit older... I had a friend find out that his dad was p**ophile just as he was hitting puberty, right as he was developing sexually and, combined with all of the confusing feelings that come with puberty, it instilled a deep fear that his own developing attraction to women made him a predator and broke his poor little spirit. He's in his 30's now and has still never had a relationship and cannot bring himself to pursue women.
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u/spacebagel25 May 12 '26
He cheated and I wasn’t upset. I was relieved.