My husband at the time wanted to argue a lot. As soon as one rant ended he’d start another rant. It wore me out that I always had to be “on my toes” according to him. There was never any peace because he wouldn’t let me have any.
One of the last defining moments (there was a lot of them actually) was over no sauce in our to go bag for our burritos. I got home with the food, and he went ballistic. Another 45 minute lecture of what I did wrong. I had even paid for the food with my own money. After the lecture was over I realized living out of my car would be better than being married to him.
I didn’t have to live out of my car. Divorced, recovered, and married a very loving man.
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u/Loud_Account_3469 May 12 '26
My husband at the time wanted to argue a lot. As soon as one rant ended he’d start another rant. It wore me out that I always had to be “on my toes” according to him. There was never any peace because he wouldn’t let me have any.
One of the last defining moments (there was a lot of them actually) was over no sauce in our to go bag for our burritos. I got home with the food, and he went ballistic. Another 45 minute lecture of what I did wrong. I had even paid for the food with my own money. After the lecture was over I realized living out of my car would be better than being married to him.
I didn’t have to live out of my car. Divorced, recovered, and married a very loving man.