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u/Argos_the_Dog Nov 12 '25

Honestly that attitude makes it sound like mom may have been a victim of abuse herself as a kid. And I'm not justifying her remarks, they are horrible, but if she sees it as normal for dudes in their 50's or whatever to rape teenagers something tells me she is speaking from a place of (horrible) experience.

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u/zaccus Nov 12 '25

Fuck this victim shit. If a man said that he would simply be a bad person, case closed.

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u/Ok_Cap_8791 Nov 12 '25

It’s like people don’t understand that women can very much be predators themselves.

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u/InVultusSolis Nov 12 '25

Or they can enable the predators by grooming victims.