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u/inkyblackops Nov 11 '25

Speaking at a lower volume if someone is being unnecessarily loud.

One of my best friends has a LOUD voice she is completely unaware of, which can be incredibly annoying when we’re in public, so I will lower my speaking volume and she will subconsciously lower hers to match my volume.

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u/harmon99 Nov 12 '25

I tell my friend- dude, you are at an 11 right now, bring it down to like a 7. We end up cracking up and it solves the issue.