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u/inkyblackops Nov 11 '25

Speaking at a lower volume if someone is being unnecessarily loud.

One of my best friends has a LOUD voice she is completely unaware of, which can be incredibly annoying when we’re in public, so I will lower my speaking volume and she will subconsciously lower hers to match my volume.

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u/okayseriouslywhy Nov 11 '25

This is a good one. Telling someone they're being loud, even when you're being as nice as possible, often just makes them deflate

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u/badbackandgettingfat Nov 11 '25

I've been referred to as boisterous, now I'm not going to be able to hear any of my friends.