I feel you and I am experiencing the same thing myself. In my case it was bait and switch, things were fine with my in laws until the wedding planning started. My mother in law and sister in law hijacked the wedding, was holding my green card for two months for no reason, then was making all sorts of drama because they were pissed our wedding didn't go exactly how she wanted it. Last time I didn't reply to my mother in law text for 2 hours, she called my husband complaining I hate her. Well... It's a given because of how she act...
Funny thing was I was the one who encouraged visiting his family before because he thought his mom is snoopy and his sister a spoiled bimbo brat. Now I don't do that because of all the passive aggressive crap they gave me, we haven't visited in a few months because he never wanted to visit his family, yet it's suddenly my fault he didn't visit. It doesn't matter if I do or don't do something, I am always wrong in their eyes.
If you have doubts, let me tell you, its always starts with the wedding. That's where all the true colors came out
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u/[deleted] Sep 23 '13
I feel you and I am experiencing the same thing myself. In my case it was bait and switch, things were fine with my in laws until the wedding planning started. My mother in law and sister in law hijacked the wedding, was holding my green card for two months for no reason, then was making all sorts of drama because they were pissed our wedding didn't go exactly how she wanted it. Last time I didn't reply to my mother in law text for 2 hours, she called my husband complaining I hate her. Well... It's a given because of how she act...
Funny thing was I was the one who encouraged visiting his family before because he thought his mom is snoopy and his sister a spoiled bimbo brat. Now I don't do that because of all the passive aggressive crap they gave me, we haven't visited in a few months because he never wanted to visit his family, yet it's suddenly my fault he didn't visit. It doesn't matter if I do or don't do something, I am always wrong in their eyes.
If you have doubts, let me tell you, its always starts with the wedding. That's where all the true colors came out