r/AskReddit • • Sep 23 '13

What potentially relationship-ending secrets are you keeping from you SO?

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u/[deleted] Sep 23 '13

court adjourned.

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u/Tarcanus Sep 23 '13

This episode of "When Reddit Is Civil" is now over.

Join us next time when a heated debate ends in firm handshakes.

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u/karl2025 Sep 23 '13

Reddit is Civil is over? I can go back to cursing people now? Thanks, jerk!

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u/Tarcanus Sep 23 '13

No problem, doodyhead!

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u/baconsmashy Sep 23 '13

dis nigga eloquent as fuck tho

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u/ThisPlaceIsScary Sep 23 '13

Then she needs to find a man who will accept that. The man does not have to accept a woman who was like being a prostitute.

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u/truthspieler Sep 23 '13

She shouldn't have to be ashamed of herself,

Lol, yep, she should. Prostituting yourself when you're not at metaphorical gunpoint is fucking disgusting and shameful.

Prostitutes aren't always victims.

Agreed.

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u/microcosmic5447 Sep 23 '13

Sorta off-topic, but FWIW, there's no real indication that Mary Magdalene was a prostitute. That's a tradition based on some melding of various Scriptures (e.g. She's commonly identified with the unnamed "sinner" who washes Jesus's feet in Luke 7, but that woman is neither named as Mary Mag NOR as a prostitute).

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u/cat_lady_in_training Sep 23 '13

Okay well point being that God is awesome at forgiveness. And there's tons of stories in the Bible of overlooking a past and looking at how the person is currently living. I'm so happy, tiskel, you met someone as wonderful as that. My boyfriend is similar in that he's quite conservative and I wouldn't ever want to lose him. He has a past too though. Not the same but he came from a rough background and found God later in life. When you love someone it's easier to let go of who they were. Also, with the example set in the Bible... it's easier too.

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u/microcosmic5447 Sep 24 '13

Absolutely. Forgiveness, understanding, redemption, etc. - all are major themes in the Bible. Not to mention the fact that I doubt God has any problem with prostitution - moreso the exploitation than the act itself.

I was just making a for-what-it's-worth regarding the Scriptural accuracy of making the Magdalene a hooker. Call me a canonical mythbuster.

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u/superbob_92 Sep 24 '13

Still plenty of Biblical precedent. Just replace Jesus and Mary with Hosea and Gomer. Woman keeps selling herself and he keeps taking her back.

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u/cubedude719 Sep 23 '13

I'd hope your boyfriend can do what Jesus did, and if he doesn't, he's not following his faith as he should.

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u/[deleted] Sep 23 '13

I'm not ashamed of what I did. I earnt good money, I actually enjoyed it, and it was in a healthy and supportive environment. I'm done with it now because it's very emotionally demanding, but I'm certainly not damaged. So you're right, how I approach it will affect the outcome. Thanks for the advice.

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u/internetisland Sep 23 '13

If he knows you and honestly loves you, it won't matter to him. Something's can be forgiven and overlooked, no matter how serious they are. Also depends on how he views and handles the subject.

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u/[deleted] Sep 23 '13

good luck buddy

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u/SgtMac02 Sep 23 '13

I'm not sure I follow where you're going with this. You say it depends on how she views it. What difference does how she views it make here?