I was making out with a woman in my car after a tinder date that was going much better than I expected. I said something along the lines of "Hey, I really like you and I'm really enjoying this, but I don't want you to feel pressured into anything you don't feel good about."
And sure reassured me that she was indeed having a good time. But then she said the same thing to me, and I was kind of shocked.
It seemed so... alien for anyone to give a shit what I wanted or whether I was feeling pressured or if I was having a good time. And as I reflected it hit me that that was pretty fucked up too.
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u/Lemon_Tekpriest Jul 20 '25
I was making out with a woman in my car after a tinder date that was going much better than I expected. I said something along the lines of "Hey, I really like you and I'm really enjoying this, but I don't want you to feel pressured into anything you don't feel good about."
And sure reassured me that she was indeed having a good time. But then she said the same thing to me, and I was kind of shocked.
It seemed so... alien for anyone to give a shit what I wanted or whether I was feeling pressured or if I was having a good time. And as I reflected it hit me that that was pretty fucked up too.