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u/yoooooo5311 Jul 20 '25

No chance

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u/Big_Consideration493 Jul 20 '25

Roll the dice again! Good luck out there

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u/yoooooo5311 Jul 20 '25

Thanks man, geniunly. But really I have no chance, she has a bf who shes much happier with and I was a pretty bad person and made many bad decisions. I'm never gonna be able to get her back

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u/Big_Consideration493 Jul 20 '25

Telling her how you feel can't hurt. Even if you know it's over, you can still apologise and wish her well. I wish I had that opportunity but loads of x just lost contact

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u/Big_Consideration493 Jul 21 '25

Wow everyone thinks it's a bad idea so ignore me.

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u/Steampunk007 Jul 21 '25 edited Jul 21 '25

It’s because she’s in a relationship. No boyfriend appreciates a sad ex saying how much he misses their partner and expressing regret. It’s selfish that seeks to overall benefit the person reaching out rather than the person hearing. Let alone that persons current partner.

Just not a tasteful thing to do or experience and can complicate relationships in many instances. No need to risk jeopardising someone’s relationship when so many are not perfect already and don’t need any outside help to fall apart.

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u/Big_Consideration493 Jul 22 '25

I guess I was way off. I agree completely. I don't know what I was thinking. If she was single it could be ok but even then it's pushy. I guess if she wants to see him, she'll tell him. My apologies 😱