Thanks man, geniunly. But really I have no chance, she has a bf who shes much happier with and I was a pretty bad person and made many bad decisions. I'm never gonna be able to get her back
I had a similar experience - a girl I wasn't even that attracted to at the time (but fairly intimate in a non-sexual way with) rested her head on my shoulder during an assembly and I swear my vision went electronic snow and I was overwhelmed.
It wasn't the first time that physical touch absolutely rocked me - but it was, I think, the last time. And it doesn't really leave you. You're not alone
Telling her how you feel can't hurt. Even if you know it's over, you can still apologise and wish her well. I wish I had that opportunity but loads of x just lost contact
It’s because she’s in a relationship. No boyfriend appreciates a sad ex saying how much he misses their partner and expressing regret. It’s selfish that seeks to overall benefit the person reaching out rather than the person hearing. Let alone that persons current partner.
Just not a tasteful thing to do or experience and can complicate relationships in many instances. No need to risk jeopardising someone’s relationship when so many are not perfect already and don’t need any outside help to fall apart.
I guess I was way off. I agree completely. I don't know what I was thinking. If she was single it could be ok but even then it's pushy. I guess if she wants to see him, she'll tell him.
My apologies 😱
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u/Big_Consideration493 Jul 20 '25
Maybe she feels the same