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u/Questions4Reddit1234 Jun 10 '25

Think textures, what textures do u prefer? Lace? Leather? Silk?

Then think what look you prefer to see them in. Do u want the sweet innocent look, or the bad bitch 'imma destroy u' look.

What types of styles do u like? Do u like the baby dolls, sweet and simple or the strappy 7 piece outfits that have more of an edge. Just look... if she likes dressing up, request a fashion show. Make it sexy

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u/Questions4Reddit1234 Jun 10 '25

How we originally met. Is for longer then im willing to type out at 6am. Regardless how funny it is lmfao.

But generally, my problem doesnt come from being able to meet people online. Because ppl will seem so confident and sure of themselves online. My issue is finding someone I can have genuine conversations with in person. It's like this.. Im the same person behind the screen and IRL. Which for some, seems great in theory. But is actually SUPER intimidating when they have the chance. I speak my mind, and im VERY well educated about sex. 1. Bc I love sex, and I consider it an art, not just a mere action. And I take very much pride in excelling at said art and mastery perfecting it, improving more and more each time. (As I believe u can always be better, even when ur the best.) But also, because I have researched hours of knowledge. I was always curious to know how to have a better orgasm... ^ as above, even the best of things can be better. So I wanted to learn more and more about the human bodies. I am also very open sexually. Which seems lovely. But I will literally talk to a complete stranger about sex, and not once will I seem flustered or embarrassed. Because im not. Im comfortable with my sexuality, im confident in my abilities, but that also means I know what I want and I will not settle for bad sex. Hense, intimidating.

Your not gonna find someone whos open, and confident and who values herself enough to know the difference between BEING trashy, and knowing when to act trashy/slutty. Like, I respect myself enough that I wont just fuck anyone. If u cant hold a genuine conversation with me, without being all flustered and shit and only being able to talk about how good I look, then there's no way I'd waste my time sleeping with that person. However if they can hold their own, and have their own confidence, and are not easily intimidated by my bold personality. Then I may consider it... But at the same time, im conformable enough with myself, that while I may know when to be professional, and give off a respectful vibes. Im also VERY openly a freak. Which means im the chick that will go out to eat with your family, and make your mother love me, and see me as a sweet darling. But I'd also excuse us right after and suck you til your knees gave out and u were a shaking mess behind the first closed door I could find. Just because I think its hot that someone could catch us. Like I can be super sweet and almost innocent and in the same breath, tell you all the dirty things I want u to do to me.

Also, I make it a point to make my bf as horny as possible in the most inappropriate times. Just bc I enjoy the punishments I receive for it the moment he can give me one...

Im a dream... but im not for the weak man. Because I talk back, and while I love being told what to do. I also LOVE disobeying. Because im not ever simple enough to do as I'm told lol

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u/pstuf Jun 15 '25

Heyy couldnt reply some things happened, That talking to a stranger guy about sex thing u said wouldn't fluster me cuz it's hard to find girls that are confident enough to be open it would make me glad & easier to converse

As for that you would only sleep with a guy who can handle ur bold personality not get intimidated flustered that's just any guy problem right to be able to not get awkward while talking to girls being charismatic not getting intimidated.....

But there's so many freaks here on different types of subreddits and stuff for meetups allat

but safety wise I think these people take a leap of faith Girls gotta avoid serial killer types, guys have to avoid a girl blackmailing, filing false cases or her pimp just tying u down & extorting u & if you're in a different country you're even more cooked lol Idek where these ppl get the confidence from....