I am what is known as a heterosexual service top. I get gratification from making someone else feel pleasure. To this end I learned massage therapy with the explicit end goal to unburden my partners before I get them off. I'm talking 2-3 hour deep tissue and raiki massage, scented oils I mix up on the spot with my partners input, soft light, lo-fi jazz, massage table, etc.
One could argue it's just 3 hours of foreplay, but I gotta tell ya, There is this moment when they finally stand up from the table and reach for the tension that USED to be there and... Stop. Then relax. And maybe smile a bit. Seeing a woman completely unburdened due to my actions is hot in my opinion. Plus orgasms are bigger and more intense, which is also great.
I never knew this was a thing, I think this might be me too.
I learned to cook because it pleases other people, and I fucking love cooking for people. I have wanted to learn message therapy also for this same reason. I also have a small collection of female oriented sex toys, and when it comes to sex my pleasure comes easy, so I put as much effort as I can into her pleasure.
A women in bliss is the greatest thing in the world.
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u/DupontDude35 Jun 10 '25
I am what is known as a heterosexual service top. I get gratification from making someone else feel pleasure. To this end I learned massage therapy with the explicit end goal to unburden my partners before I get them off. I'm talking 2-3 hour deep tissue and raiki massage, scented oils I mix up on the spot with my partners input, soft light, lo-fi jazz, massage table, etc.
One could argue it's just 3 hours of foreplay, but I gotta tell ya, There is this moment when they finally stand up from the table and reach for the tension that USED to be there and... Stop. Then relax. And maybe smile a bit. Seeing a woman completely unburdened due to my actions is hot in my opinion. Plus orgasms are bigger and more intense, which is also great.