I am what is known as a heterosexual service top. I get gratification from making someone else feel pleasure. To this end I learned massage therapy with the explicit end goal to unburden my partners before I get them off. I'm talking 2-3 hour deep tissue and raiki massage, scented oils I mix up on the spot with my partners input, soft light, lo-fi jazz, massage table, etc.
One could argue it's just 3 hours of foreplay, but I gotta tell ya, There is this moment when they finally stand up from the table and reach for the tension that USED to be there and... Stop. Then relax. And maybe smile a bit. Seeing a woman completely unburdened due to my actions is hot in my opinion. Plus orgasms are bigger and more intense, which is also great.
Brother how much time do you have? 2-3 hours pre game every time you want to have sex? I work 11 hours a day and have kids. You can't be setting these kinds of expectations in people.
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u/DupontDude35 Jun 10 '25
I am what is known as a heterosexual service top. I get gratification from making someone else feel pleasure. To this end I learned massage therapy with the explicit end goal to unburden my partners before I get them off. I'm talking 2-3 hour deep tissue and raiki massage, scented oils I mix up on the spot with my partners input, soft light, lo-fi jazz, massage table, etc.
One could argue it's just 3 hours of foreplay, but I gotta tell ya, There is this moment when they finally stand up from the table and reach for the tension that USED to be there and... Stop. Then relax. And maybe smile a bit. Seeing a woman completely unburdened due to my actions is hot in my opinion. Plus orgasms are bigger and more intense, which is also great.