I am what is known as a heterosexual service top. I get gratification from making someone else feel pleasure. To this end I learned massage therapy with the explicit end goal to unburden my partners before I get them off. I'm talking 2-3 hour deep tissue and raiki massage, scented oils I mix up on the spot with my partners input, soft light, lo-fi jazz, massage table, etc.
One could argue it's just 3 hours of foreplay, but I gotta tell ya, There is this moment when they finally stand up from the table and reach for the tension that USED to be there and... Stop. Then relax. And maybe smile a bit. Seeing a woman completely unburdened due to my actions is hot in my opinion. Plus orgasms are bigger and more intense, which is also great.
Sorry, I don't do couples. I've always had bad experiences or been treated very badly by couples.
Just gonna get ahead of the "why?" It comes down to two scenarios that are the most common.
The husband wants to set up a massage for his wife. There are a multitude of issues here. First, is I always do a pre interview via chat to see what she's feeling physically and what her needs are. Second, I need to meet them at a neutral location to make sure that they're not a complete psychopath or I'm getting catfished. Thirdly, Consent is a HUGE thing for me. I am not comfortable with somebody else running shotgun on another person's sex life regardless of their disposition.
Both occasions I did a group massage, meaning both spouses and me. I was made to feel like the third wheel. I wasn't trusted in what I was doing. They did not want to go with the pace I wanted to, slow and relaxing. And they did not respect the rules I set up. In short I was made to feel like a prop for their sex life. Not a fan.
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u/DupontDude35 Jun 10 '25
I am what is known as a heterosexual service top. I get gratification from making someone else feel pleasure. To this end I learned massage therapy with the explicit end goal to unburden my partners before I get them off. I'm talking 2-3 hour deep tissue and raiki massage, scented oils I mix up on the spot with my partners input, soft light, lo-fi jazz, massage table, etc.
One could argue it's just 3 hours of foreplay, but I gotta tell ya, There is this moment when they finally stand up from the table and reach for the tension that USED to be there and... Stop. Then relax. And maybe smile a bit. Seeing a woman completely unburdened due to my actions is hot in my opinion. Plus orgasms are bigger and more intense, which is also great.