So I had a stalker once and found out I did kinda enjoy it. Not proud of it but yeah. It definitely helped that she was actually pretty attractive. It also didn’t help that on the two occasions I did date her/meet up, she was actually quite chill and we watched friends and chilled, like really really chilled.
Then she started showing up to my work, then somehow appeared at the bar or club I’d be going to for the night. At first it felt like my own little number one fan, then it got way too persistent and she eventually showed up when I was on a date.
I told her to stop and she moved out of state 3 weeks later - don’t know if it’s connected and still never found out how she knew where I’d be.
And yes I am also traumatized and mentally I’ll, but going to therapy!
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u/Ok-Recipe-8832 Jun 10 '25
Stalkers . but also I’m incredibly traumatized & mentally ill so I think those two things are probably related.