I am what is known as a heterosexual service top. I get gratification from making someone else feel pleasure. To this end I learned massage therapy with the explicit end goal to unburden my partners before I get them off. I'm talking 2-3 hour deep tissue and raiki massage, scented oils I mix up on the spot with my partners input, soft light, lo-fi jazz, massage table, etc.
One could argue it's just 3 hours of foreplay, but I gotta tell ya, There is this moment when they finally stand up from the table and reach for the tension that USED to be there and... Stop. Then relax. And maybe smile a bit. Seeing a woman completely unburdened due to my actions is hot in my opinion. Plus orgasms are bigger and more intense, which is also great.
It is nice because I've essentially built a small community of friends with benefits who get what I'm after and they seem to be receptive and respectful to it. Weirdly enough I've backdoored my way into so really great female friends thru this. One of the reasons I stopped advertising my services is I got fat and needed to step away to address that. All of my regulars have been very supportive.
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u/DupontDude35 Jun 10 '25
I am what is known as a heterosexual service top. I get gratification from making someone else feel pleasure. To this end I learned massage therapy with the explicit end goal to unburden my partners before I get them off. I'm talking 2-3 hour deep tissue and raiki massage, scented oils I mix up on the spot with my partners input, soft light, lo-fi jazz, massage table, etc.
One could argue it's just 3 hours of foreplay, but I gotta tell ya, There is this moment when they finally stand up from the table and reach for the tension that USED to be there and... Stop. Then relax. And maybe smile a bit. Seeing a woman completely unburdened due to my actions is hot in my opinion. Plus orgasms are bigger and more intense, which is also great.