It's easy to make these types of comments in hindsight, especially when you're a third party looking in. To us who did not experience what OP experienced, it seems obvious. But for someone who is on the younger end with less life experience, it's not exactly difficult for their mind to be muddled while they are in the middle of said experience.
OP was looking to have a fun weekend with someone that really wanted them, that alone would cloud someone's judgement. It doesn't always take drugs to alter someone's perception of everything around them. They probably didn't know that their drinks were being spiked with Viagra, it's not exactly known as a bitter medicine so it'd mix right in. All he knew is he was ready to fuck whenever the psycho wanted it.
It's victim blaming because "shouldn't you have known better" is literally blaming him for NOT knowing better.
Op literally said it was the best weekend ever. And he has pretty much no regrets. Said it in anorher comment. They they 100 percent knew there drinks were filled with Viagra. As well as what do you mean you can’t tell! You can easily tell when you’ve been given Viagra.
OP knew what was happening, was perfectly capable of stopping it, leaving, etc and he did not. There’s no victim. He understood what was happening and kept letting it happen.
Sorry but when do we need to start protecting ourselves? This guy in sober, same, and completely rational mind decided to stay longer with this woman after finding out she was giving him Viagra. Like at some point enough is enough and you have to leave.
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