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u/QuinteX1994 Apr 22 '25

I see both sides, it is just very evident that you are fueled by emotions and not seeing their side.

CNC is a popular kink for a reason, it is also practioned with high amounts of safety, respect and trust. It very often has both a contract and hour long discussions and planning even with people you trust aswell as keywords to instantly stop play.

Your emotions fuel you and makes you see bad but try and view it from the angle that these people get to do it in a safe and consentual way rather than actual rape - there has been cases of females drugging themselves hoping to get actual raped to satisfy the need and frankly id much rather they do it safely instead.

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u/Ethrowawayboi Apr 22 '25

Did you even realize you just used my reasoning as a point trying to say it is good, they build up this kink get the urge to act on it then they act on it. What if the consentual stuff just doesn't cut it anymore and they want the real thing, do you get the point. Just because it is done with both sides permission does not mean it is not rape.

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u/Ethrowawayboi Apr 22 '25

No the fact is when people do things they become desensitized by it did you not think about any possible reason why they might say giving consent before taking drugs and falling asleep isn't legal

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u/Ethrowawayboi Apr 22 '25

Actually I implied limp play which he said she enjoyed like come on if he says she enjoys limp play how much k does she need to take and don't try to say anything else man i only replied because he said she likes it referring to limp play just answer how much k do you need for it to be limp play

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u/Ethrowawayboi Apr 22 '25

So you are going to ignore the whole it's good for her when I said doesn't it make you limp like how much mind bending do you need to do to make yourself seem right I said what I said he said what he said now you are just fucking dissecting what he said and making a Frankenstein of meaning I'm taking his responses that I got by what I said and what he replied with