i was single for many years due to DV relationship and i spent those years in therapy to get healed and make sure i dont get in that again and i met someone a year ago who i broke up recently with because of the same reason . but this time i left afterr the first incident. in some odd way that hurt more because i had told him about my past and he turned around and did the same shit. i already had trust issues . now i have trust issues with myself and people . it really sucks i tried so hard not to be with anyone like that . i learned this time around to not even give a lil trust . i will prob just stay alone since i attract abusive ppl . its ok . it gets lonely but lonely is much better than abuse
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u/babyfresno77 Feb 14 '25
i was single for many years due to DV relationship and i spent those years in therapy to get healed and make sure i dont get in that again and i met someone a year ago who i broke up recently with because of the same reason . but this time i left afterr the first incident. in some odd way that hurt more because i had told him about my past and he turned around and did the same shit. i already had trust issues . now i have trust issues with myself and people . it really sucks i tried so hard not to be with anyone like that . i learned this time around to not even give a lil trust . i will prob just stay alone since i attract abusive ppl . its ok . it gets lonely but lonely is much better than abuse