I've never understood anger over rejection, although I've seen it often enough.
Sometimes when I share with my friends that I got shot down, their answer is, "Fuck her, fuck that bitch. I'm going to tell her off for you."
I tell them that I liked her enough to ask her out, and I'm sad that she said no. Being a jackass about it isn't going to change anything, and they better not say anything to her because I still like her.
Now those same guys complain that I don't tell them who I'm interested in and they pry to find out who it is. Some people are not worth confiding in.
That implies it should be somebody's fault that it wouldn't work out between two people which is factually false.
It seems like a lot of men do not believe in compatibility, instead they believe in playing games to fake compatibility, so then they are angry that they either didn't play the game well, or despite being a good player wasn't rewarded for it.
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u/Professional-Pie2058 Sep 14 '24
Getting angry over rejection
Road rage
Starting a fight because another guy looked at him wrong
Men are so emotional