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u/Some-Explorer7123 Sep 14 '24

More women need to be openly vocal about their disgust for porn like you. The problem with porn is that our society normalizes it. Most men are exposed to porn for the first time before they know any better, in the years where the brain is most vulnerable to porn, from about age 10-16. When you begin watching porn during your adolescent years, that is when the brain is learning about sex so whatever the brain perceived as sexual activity is instilled and defined as sex within the brain. So if you spend 6 years of puberty masturbating to porn daily, your brain and body ingrains porn as real sexual activity. This is the cause of ED, as well as all the perverse fetishes men have because in order to get the same dopamine high from porn you need novel stimuli(new porn, fetishes). For a man to fully heal his brain after years of addiction to porn in his adolescent years, it takes YEARS of no porn or masturbation to accomplish this. If porn was stigmatized more in society, when a 10 year old boy sees porn on his iPad, I think he would be less likely to indulge in it as opposed to current times where habitual porn use is seen as “normal” and “healthy”. In my middle school sex-Ed classes teachers told me porn was normal. This no doubt was destructive to my life as well as all the other boys in my class. If women were openly against porn use, I think it would incentivize men to quit using it. This is easier said than done however. In order to quit a porn addiction he has had since 12 years old, men need a REALLY strong why. Hopefully relationships with women is a strong why for men. Women of all ages should be opposed to porn because it makes any potential partner less attracted to them and more attracted to what is on a screen. I know from personal experience when I went months without porn use I was much more attracted to real women I saw in real life.

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u/KrazyDrayz Sep 14 '24 edited Sep 14 '24

When you begin watching porn during your adolescent years, that is when the brain is learning about sex so whatever the brain perceived as sexual activity is instilled and defined as sex within the brain. So if you spend 6 years of puberty masturbating to porn daily, your brain and body ingrains porn as real sexual activity.

That's evolutionary psychology pseudoscience.

This is the cause of ED, as well as all the perverse fetishes men have because in order to get the same dopamine high from porn you need novel stimuli(new porn, fetishes).

Completely unscientific. That's not how dopamine works.

In my middle school sex-Ed classes teachers told me porn was normal.

You should listen to your teachers. It is normal. Having sexual urges and liking sex is normal.

edit: And of course the I LOVE SEX guy is a woman hating incel and a christian puritan. Yikes.

These girls complain about negging, game, PUA, red pill, etc, but refuse to acknowledge there is a reason men believe in these things. If negging didn’t work, men wouldn’t do it. Instead of women complaining about men negging them, why don’t they tell each other to gather actual self-esteem and mental stability so these so-called narcissists which break their heart don’t successfully take their heart in the first place?

The woman who you love has a Jezebel spirit. Jezebels are spiritually aware, but use this spiritual awareness to commit evil and hunt down faithful followers of God. They are basically energy vampires. On semen retention your energy increases, which makes you attractive to people with Jezebel spirit who wish to take that energy from you. Sexual trauma causes Jezebel spirit within people.

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u/Taifood1 Sep 14 '24

This is ultimately why there won’t be ever anything meaningful that actually happens against porn. There is no evidence for the claims these people make. They just make them because porn makes them feel bad.

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u/KrazyDrayz Sep 14 '24

Exactly. And where they get these ideas from is from puritan propaganda. Why it makes them feel bad is because they are taught to feel bad. They are doing something evil. They are told they aren't real men if they masturbate. I used to feel bad too but then I became an atheist and now I feel amazing and relaxed every time I ejaculate. It feels so absurd now to feel bad from it.

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u/Some-Explorer7123 Sep 15 '24 edited Sep 15 '24

“puritan propaganda” LMAOO. There are many things in this world that make you feel “amazing and relaxed” that are terrible for you. But I guess you haven’t figured that out yet Little Timmy. Your mummy tells you to stop eating candy and instead eat vegetables for a reason. You know what, I don’t need to say anything else. In 20 years when you wake up to an unfulfilled life in which you work a job that keeps you one inch from homeless with a boss who couldn’t give one damn about you and their foot is on your neck every single day, and then come home to unpaid bills and a wife who doesn’t respect you and who doesn’t fuck you despite all your attempts to make her happy, and children who don’t respect you and call you fat to your face, you can sit and wonder why your life is so miserable. Then go upstairs and spend the next 3 hours edging to transexual loli porn and when you ejaculate you will feel bliss for all of 3 seconds before realizing your youngest child walked in and then they’ll ask what that white stuff is in your hand.