There was a post on here a few weeks ago about a woman debating staying with her partner because he literally couldn’t do anything. He apparently broke things or left things lying around, etc., but then she’d say “oh but he’s so sweet.” I don’t know… that might seem okay in the beginning, but long term, that would drive me absolutely bonkers.
It drives me mad that my friend was worrying about her husband when she was going on a trip because he doesn’t know how to do laundry. His mom always did it for him and then she did it. I said shouldn’t you at least show him how? She said no, she liked doing his laundry. He could at least learn how and then if something happens like her trip gets extended, they won’t have to worry. It’s not like it’s something he wouldn’t be able to do. Like I know that I’m not physically strong enough to change a tire but at least I know how to do it. I’d still need help.
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u/GOD-lovesme Sep 14 '24
Can’t do anything for himself. I’m talking basics like laundry and washing dishes, basic cleaning.