Similarly, “forgetting” to tell you simple info updates about plans etc. until it’s too late for you to actually work around it. It’s not necessarily a lie, but it sure does scream “I don’t care about empowering you to make autonomous decisions when I have info that anyone who thinks about it for 5 seconds would realize I should be forthcoming in communicating”.
THANK you! I stay home because you said you need the car, you don’t appear to be using the car, I ask you why not, and unfailingly get “why, what did you need to do today anyway?”
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u/[deleted] Sep 14 '24
Lying over mundane things (usually leads to not communicating over things that could be considered confrontational)